THE LIFE YOU TRULY DESERVE

The first step to leaving the life you want is leaving behind the life you do not want.Letting go is your 1st step to happiness.For years you might have lived like you are in your own world full of disappointments, failure, depression, e.t.c. not because things were bad for you but you lived a life that was not for you. You listened to people more and was always working hard to be a version fit to everybody's idea of you and whenever you did not fit in, it always felt like the end of the world.This are mistakes we all at some point in life do knowingly or unknowingly.It's good though that we always come back to our senses, back to reality like I DID.Here's where you should start by knowing that mistakes are part of life but the difference is what you do with them.Learn from them and break free from your own false thoughts.
NO one is perfect so be yourself and let others be true to themselves because everyone is fighting some battle you know nothing about.JUDGE LESS LOVE MORE.
Your life is a result of the choices you make, if you don't like it then its time for you to start making better choices.You are here for a special reason.Stop being a prisoner of your past.Become an architect of your present.Life is filled with challenges buts its also filled with countless opportunities.Don't drown yourself in sorrow.Be lead by your DREAM pal.Create your own luck #work hard, there are no shortcuts to any place  worth going.Live beyond your scars and focus on building the you that you truly deserve.Sometimes the people around you won't understand your journey.They don't need to, it's not for them.ALWAYS believe that you can do all things, be all things, because nothing is impossible and impossible is nothing and in all this put GOD first because he directs our steps.
Let today be the first step of your life pal.................

LETTING GO...

There is a difference between giving up and letting go.Giving up reduces your life, letting go expands it.Its always the hardest thing to do but sometimes you just have to.Look at the brighter side, you are creating room for better people in your life who love and accept you just the way you are or for whom you are.I was sited at a corner by myself as I wrote this because I felt so disappointed in friends I thought I could count on, not to mention that one dream girl who always made me smile even when she was not around.Maybe I wasn't the best they wanted but I was just being me.At some point I tried changing myself to fit in but trust me, that is a big lie that only yourself know about.I have felt alone when I couldn't afford to be but at the end of the day I had to learn to be my own best friend, because there are going to be days when there be no one there for you but yourself.Through all this though, I must say some valuable lessons have been learned and I feel obliged to share with a friend just like me.People may say we are so sensitive but so what , you are unique in your own way and that's reason enough to celebrate.

Think about this;If someone seriously wants to be part of your life, They will seriously make an effort to be in it.No reasons, No excuses!!!!Thanks to all those who never left.
Never change for anyone because it never lasts.Be true, Be real, Be you.The right people meant to be in your life will come and they will stay.You will be so happy that it will be like a dream come true.

Sometimes you just have to erase the messages, delete the numbers and move on.You don't have to forget who that person was but you just have to accept that they are not the same anymore.
Don't let anyone become a vacuum and suck the happiness out of you, PULL THE PLUG.Letting go is your first step to happiness.BYE till we meet again pal.............

BORED TO DEATH ?

Time is like a river, you can't touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again.Most of the time we misuse this precious God given gift #TIME without our knowledge.I used to sleep all day and if not sleeping you would find me eating and watching tv all day.Sometimes I would do drugs as a pass time and a normal social thing but gradually it became a near fatal addiction that I was able to beat all thanks to the almighty God.At some point I asked myself ; Of what importance was that to me and to the people around me??and none of the answers made sense to me.To all out there at times it may look fun but we end up loosing ourselves and our inner voices in the process.My friend Take charge before you are discharged, act before you are acted upon,control your own destiny or someone or something else will.Here's a mind changer you should all try out.
GUN to your head. If you had to leave the house all day, everyday where would you go and what would you do?????
Wake up, get out there and do something.Remember this;YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE GREAT TO START, BUT YOU HAVE TO START TO BE GREAT.

ON MY WAY TO SUCCESS

A creative mind is motivated by the desire to achieve not by the desire to beat others.I once was in a competition with the world, trust me it leads you nowhere.For years it lead me only to disappointments, self-hate, depression e.t.c. but here's what you should do, always compare yourself to who you were yesterday not to anyone else.This three easy points also helped change the way I used to think and do things.
                            1. knowing what you want to do
                            2.knowing how to do it
                            3. doing it
Nobody held me back but myself.Don't hold yourself back pal.The secret is starting where you are , use what you have and do what you can and like the chinese say excuses are the nails that are used to build a house called failure, AVOID these and be sure to get ahead.Chase your dreams no matter what others think,they may laugh at you but its your journey and no one will walk it for you, even your close friends only walk with you.I am not yet there but atleast now I know better thanks to God who changed my ways.See you at the top friend and remember not to loose hope no matter how hard it gets because; EVERY WEAKNESS YOU HAVE IS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR GOD TO SHOW HIS STRENGTH IN YOUR LIFE

NEW TO BLOGGING FOR A REASON

This is my first time to blog.I dont know why but sometmes I just feel like talking to people out there like me who might have lost hope and theres no one to talk to.WATCH OUT FOR INSPIRING STORIES FROM ME that may help change the way you think.THANKS FOR THE SUPPORT